10 Important Quotes: insights of an expat

 

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Hiking outside Madrid

 

 

It was exactly one year ago that I wrote a blog entry regarding all the surprising things I found about life in Madrid after only a month in Spain: Phew. I feel safe around graffiti now. “The girl who’s carried an agenda since 4th grade finds herself in the present and *gasp* without a plan,” I wrote. It was the most perfect unplanned plan I have ever carried out. The entire year was filled with surprise. I allowed myself to be stunned by Spain. Living abroad for an entire year without a clue of what I would do after gave me the most useful understanding of myself, the things that matter to me, and the direction I aim for now. In order to discover my future, I had to completely give up my past. I gave up my dream job, my home, my timetable, the man I loved, and finally, I had to give up my vision of what I thought my life must look like. I started out afraid, then became super excited, only to get heartbroken, and ended up immensely alive.

 

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Granada, Spain

A year later, I am mixing in the plan-less method with a stronger sense of direction and self. This means I have goals again! I have things I want to accomplish. I have confidence. Still, I am leaving the door open for those unpredictable patterns of life. The ones that might come, and take all my plans away once again. Because now I understand that I would much rather start from scratch than get stuck.
This second year living in Madrid, I am starting everything from scratch. I am teaching English with renewed commitment for child education; I am madly in love again; I am making brand new friends; I am visiting new cities; and…I am already planning to move across the world next year (again!). This past year was my “gap year,” despite the fact I graduated college 5 years ago. I cannot say with certainty that this method will work for everyone the way it did for me. But giving myself a year to have zero plans, zero dreams, zero expectations was about the healthiest things I have done for my mind. Thankfully, I had the drive and means to move abroad. Some call me lucky. But I’d much prefer you use words like driven, or open.
If you are hesitating on whether to take a gap year travelling, or living abroad for a while (teaching English is a great way to do this!) – and want someone who’s done it to put in their two cents – here’s a list of reasons why I would encourage you to jump the fence. And because I cannot promise your experience will be the same as mine, I am not going to give you my personal reasons. You have your own path. Your adventure will be as unique as your own mind, and your journey as transforming as your own openness. Instead, I will give you the quotes that I have found extremely insightful and revealing of what it is like to live a year abroad:
1) “I could tell you my adventures – beginning from this morning, but it’s no use going back to yesterday, because I was a different person then.” – Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland
2) “I didn’t feel sad or happy. I didn’t feel proud or ashamed. I only felt that in spite of all the things I’d done wrong, in getting myself here, I’d done right.” – Cheryl Strayed, WILD
3) “All my thoughts, my unhappiest days and nights, have, I find, not at all cured me of my love of Beauty.” – John Keats, letter to Fanny Brawne
4) “…my heart, it went wild. I wasn’t expecting that…But it came without fear, a month turned into a year. I wasn’t expecting that.” – Jamie Lawson, Wasn’t Expecting That song.
5) “Any moment might be our last. Everything is more beautiful because we are doomed. You will never be lovelier than you are now. We will never be here again.” – Homer, The Iliad
6) “Tell him yes. Even if you are dying of fear, even if you are sorry later, because whatever you do, you will be sorry all the rest of your life if you say no.” – Gabriel García Marquez, Love in the Time of Cholera
7) “Go venture far beyond the shore, don’t forsake this life of yours. I’ll guide you home no matter where you are. He said, ‘One day you’ll leave this world behind. So live a life you will remember!” – Avicii, The Nights song
8) “So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,
So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.” – William Shakespeare, Sonnet 18
9) “I have wonderful news! …You are going to live a good and long life filled with great and terrible moments that you cannot even imagine yet!” – John Green, The Fault in Our Stars
10) “For what it’s worth: it’s never too late or, in my case, too early to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit, stop whenever you want. You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. And I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life you’re proud of. If you find that you’re not, I hope you have the courage to start all over again.” – F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button

 

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Miami, USA

 

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2 thoughts on “10 Important Quotes: insights of an expat

  1. “Your adventure will be as unique as your own mind, and your journey as transforming as your own openness.”

    So, one day, someone will google “inspiring quotes from Vanessa Uzcategui” and that will come up. Think Elizabeth Gilbert, except you. I’ve loved watching your transformation from the day I met you at CIEE orientation last September to today, and I’ve loved the transformation of our friendship in that time, too. You’ve inspired me from the beginning… and it doesn’t look like that will be changing anytime soon. xoxo

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